Being Single!!!

So blogging continues for me…thanks to some excellent support from family and friends that I now have decided to post one blog per month…just like a sales target…but unfortunately not given by my DIRECTOR as I work in a pvt engineering college  but rather self taken targets… ;-)

I should make a mention here that I was actually lost on what I should write on??? But god’s sent angel i.e sagarika one of my very very very good friend please excuse me for the emphasis on the word  “very” but she is that good friend of mine so it comes automatic  :- ) In fact she  suggested me that I should write something about the EXCLUSIVE STATUS we both share…any guesses??? I would end your wandering thoughts [no publicity for my blog ;-)]  soon as the late I come up with an answer  the wilder your imaginations would go…so guys and girls...It’s OUR STATUS of being “SINGLE”

I spontaneously jumped with an EMPHATIC “yes” but only to realize when I began to write that what I could possibly write and after having got so many applauding comments on the first 2 blogs I did not want to get any less of comments this time….The best opening lines I can think off to kick start this blog is something my boss told in the year 2007 for one of the farewell speech of the college where I work in the lines were “Students trust me the best part of your life is about begin now…when you are SINGLE and about to EARN!!!” No wonder they always say “BOSS IS RIGHT” but I would love this to be the first and last time I agree on a public forum ;-)

Though I was sitting in the audience as an employee but the student in me which makes me learn from anyone in this world…kind of just absorbed these lines…and since then probably I decided that I am gonna njoi this phase of my life to the fullest!!! My own sisters and almost all my friends (except ME and SAGARIKA so happy to be in this ELITE CLUB…lol) are married and by god’s grace have been blessed with children also…I have seen some of them…and every time they discuss with me any of their post marriage problems I feel as GOD’S FAVOURITE CHILD and that’s probably the reason why I njoi this SINGLE STATUS and have no hassles.

With “BEING SINGLE AND EARNING” comes some exclusive privileges too…you can always try flirting with great and hot guys…you get attention from good looking guys too…you can spend any amount of money on dresses, food, cosmetics etc….you don’t have to shoulder family income responsibilities mom and dad are there for it. Thanks mummy and how can I forget you daddy you made me financially independent. Some common problems of being married also equally exist which I hear from family and friends are you have too many people to take responsibility of…before spending anywhere you need to plan your monthly budget…children education etc.  The list is endless but I thank GOD that all these problems have evaded me until now…but with this statement I even dread that I don’t have many days left to njoi this status as BHAGWAN KE GHAR DER HAI ANDHER NAHIN…so I too will get into the crux of all these household and marital problems but I just pray to god that I should be able to maintain an identity for myself and no one should say me “YOU CHANGED LEENA…..” Change for good is always welcome…but change making me go far from my loved ones is never been acceptable!!!

To sum it up before my readers get bored and write me off as someone trying to strike differences between being single and married I just want to say either BEING SINGLE or MARRIED have their own pros and cons…but I would want everyone to njoi their own exclusive status…so while I njoi my BEING SINGLE STATUS Ladies and Gentlemen you Njoi your status......